-- Women's values known as the fighting nation
No.1 of the irregular series excerpted from
《the cross country love between Chinese husband and Ukrainian wife》
Sasha, is a name almost rotten street in Ukraine, just like our Chinese Xiaofang,
Lili, etc. But this Sasha, whose full name is Oleksandra Likhachova,
is a close friend of my wife, Victoria. I have to be careful with her!
Sasha's figure, among Ukrainian beauties, is petite and exquisite.
She was born dignified and beautiful, behaved appropriately,
sincere and simple, frank and spiritual. Her mother is a professional painter.
When she was a child, she was influenced by her mother to learn painting.
What impresses me is that she drew a picture for me and Victoria,
so I remembered this talented little girl. Single Sasha came to Chengdu,
China, Vica couldn't say how happy she was - finally can speak Ukrainian language again!
Sasha knows that Vika and I are trying to set up TaoHuaXing Global Dating platform.
Out of her trust in Vica and her Chinese husband, affirmation of her character,
and seeing her best friend Vica, she once said that she would never marry a Chinese in her life,
but after meeting her Chinese husband,
she completely changed the existing principles and enjoyed true love and happiness after marriage.
Inspired by this real case, she has also registered on the taohuaxing platform,
and is willing to meet outstanding Chinese men,
hoping to find her capable and talented Chinese man.
Here comes the point! Today, after Sasha registered,
many men submit application to Shasha online and expressed their good feelings and even admiration for her.
I said that Sasha should be one of the agents of TaoHuaXing platform,
so that she could introduce her Ukrainian best friend to the platform to register and get along with excellent Chinese men.
Because our platform has a distribution bonus system (every girl is invited by a man,
and she can get part of the bonus.
And the agent can get distribution bonus through other girls who develop by themselves).
I also added one more sentence: a girl who has been introduced to register
will only spend a little time in the introduction to help her get the joint and several income of the agent,
which is more economic value than drawing a picture in a month.
Just after the voice fell, my wife immediately criticized me with
seven mature Chinese words with Ukrainian accent:
Zou, don't say that. Our body needs to eat, so does the soul.
At the moment when I looked at Vika, I also reflected that there was a bias in my way of expression.
I should not compare painting and registration of TaoHuaXing only in terms of economic benefits.
This kind of comparison is too narrow,
and there are more multiple dimensions of comparison between them.
When I emphasize some kind of business awareness,
I ignore the feelings of people with different multiple life concepts.
At that moment, I was a Chinese businessman who just said his own idea of making money.
Unconsciously, he expressed that he should make good use
of the value of time and let time get more economic returns,
instead of paying for his own elegant poems and distant places with his youth!
At first glance, it seems that there is nothing wrong with this,
because we Chinese people have been in such Chicken Soup for too long - in fact,
it does not reflect the uneasiness in the soul. With such deep unease,
no matter how men and women can get a good marriage?
I am ashamed of my way of expression. Although I am kind,
I may unconsciously attack the different values of female painters.
In other words, Sasha has her philosophy and way of life.
Even if it can't be high-end or perfect,
why destroy other people's little happiness?
Why can't we waste our lives on the things we like and the people we like.
It is because of such imperceptible values that it is possible to cultivate a wife like Vica.
In terms of marriage and love, she always puts feelings first, not money.
Ask myself, when I was 23 years old, I couldn't have the sense of fairness and humanity.
This is the imperceptible gap between different education and living environment.
It has nothing to do with technology, diploma and earning power.
It's about the temperature of human nature.
I need to learn more from my Ukrainian wife, Victoria!
Attachment: Short video of meeting Sasha in Beijing